Category Archives: Ask Mia

Q ~ What is the safest way to approach anal sex? JD

Dear JD, Thank you for this great question. Anal play and/or sex can be extraordinarily pleasurable but there are a few factors to consider that can make all the difference. Communication is vital for enjoyable anal play. Making sure both people are consenting to the same type of play, are comfortable, relaxed and have addressed…Read More

Q ~ “I am 33 years old, and I have never had a man give me an orgasm without helping myself to it. Is this normal? ” GL

Dear GL, I am glad to hear you are helping yourself to it and taking care of your own pleasure.  Ultimately no one can give us an orgasm, instead we need to let ourselves accept their stimulation, touch and connection to be able to achieve climax with them.  That is the one of the most important elements…Read More

Q ~ ” My husband and I are happily married, but I am not happy with our sex life. I would like to be intimate more often and expand things a little. He seems perfectly happy. I don’t want to upset him, and I am embarrassed but I feel frustrated” Cathy 48 yrs

A ~ Dear Cathy, First of all, it’s important to know you are not alone. It is very common for partners to have different levels of interest in sex, as well as, a wide range of what they are specifically open to trying. I would also like to compliment you on honouring your own desires…Read More